18 Reasons You Shouldn’t be a Judgmental Ass to Pregnant Women or Mothers Who are Not Wearing a Wedding Ring

  1. Perhaps, if she is pregnant, she is experiencing water retention that causes swelling and she can no longer fit her rings.
  2. Perhaps her wedding ring is being cleaned or repaired.
  3. Perhaps her wedding ring has suddenly started to turn their finger green or cause an allergic reaction.
  4. Perhaps she takes the teaching of the Bible literally when it states “Do not adorn yourselves outwardly by braiding your hair and by wearing gold ornaments” 1 Peter 3:3a
  5. Perhaps she is a widow.
  6. Perhaps she is a surrogate.
  7. Perhaps they are not her children and she is the nanny, babysitter, auntie etc.
  8. Perhaps she is not pregnant and you are being a judgmental ass about her weight.
  9. Perhaps her husband has deserted or divorced her.
  10. Perhaps she is a rape victim that has chosen to have the baby, which, if you are pro-life, you should be supporting and if your are pro-choice, you should believe is her right to chose.
  11. Perhaps she was accidentally artificially impregnated like Jane the Virgin and has decided to have the baby, which if you are pro-life, you should be supporting and if your are pro-choice, you should believe is her right to chose.
  12. Perhaps she is Mary, the mother of Jesus.
  13. Perhaps she has left or divorced an abusive or adulterous husband.
  14. Perhaps she is pregnant or has children from a long-term relationship but isn’t married and has decided to keep the children, which if you are pro-life, you should be supporting and if your are pro-choice, you should believe is her right to chose.
  15. Perhaps she is pregnant from a short-term relationship but isn’t married and has decided to have the baby, which if you are pro-life, you should be supporting and if your are pro-choice, you should believe is her right to chose.
  16. Perhaps she is pregnant from a one night stand, but has decided to have the baby, which if you are pro-life, you should be supporting and if your are pro-choice, you should believe is her right to chose.
  17. Perhaps she is pregnant and has multiple children from multiple different fathers, but has decided to keep the children, which if you are pro-life, you should be supporting and if your are pro-choice, you should believe is her right to chose.
  18. Perhaps none of the above is any of your business, because it is her life, her decisions, and her body.
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